All I ever see these days - whether it’s on my Tumblr dashboard, Facebook newsfeed, out and about in society or talking to people I know, is people who continue to be in a relationship which clearly isn’t working or with somebody who makes them absolutely miserable and feel shit about themselves.
Your teeenage years should be about being happy, enjoying your youth while it lasts, finding your true self, spending time with your fabulous friends and having the time of your life. Being in a relationship that doesn’t make you feel great will turn your teenage years into miserbale and heart breaking ones, and who the hell wants to live like that?
If you are in a relationship which makes you feel insecure about yourself, jealous because of the way your partner flirtaciously engages with other people, confused about where the both of you stands with each other, ignored, used and especially makes you feel horrible & wanting to cry your eyes out all the time. There is only one word I have to say to you: Leave!
Do not sit around on your blog and complain throughout the relationship that things aren’t going well. That you’re sad, or want to cry or hurt yourself, or you feel horrible about yourself because of the person you’re with. You don’t deserve to go through that and you’re better off leaving the person and hurting afterwards for a little while than not leaving them and staying with them for a long time enduring a lot of pain and heartbreak.
And yes the majority of people who do this do happen to be girls, but mind you I have seen lots of guys who do the exact same thing! If you suspect that your girl might be ‘playing you’ or seems to keep her options open for lots of guys to flirtaciously engage with her there really is no point in staying with her is there? Believe it or not, girls can be horrible as hell.
Do not stand for such bullshit. You are all fucking amazing people, each and every single one of you and you all deserve the world. You deserve the best in life and if you feel the person you’re with doesn’t make you feel like that then I promise you that whether its tomorow, next month or next year you will find the most perfect person who will never give you any reason whatsoever to complain.
But as for the relationship you’re currently in, It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, the so called ‘connection you feel’, whether or not you are ‘soul mates’ - even though you’re teens (Yes I have seen too many failed relationships where they think they are indeed soul mates). The bottom line is:
If you happen to be in a relationship with somebody like that, there really is no point staying around to become more attatched and become harder for it to leave - So just do it. I promise you in the long run it’ll make your life a lot better.
Monday Oct 10 @ 03:32am
No. Are you fucking kidding me? Put yourself in his shoes for once. Do you think he’s happy knowing that he fucked up? Do you think he’s not sorry for ruining one of the only good things in his life? Do you think he’s happy hating himself every single day for what he did? Do you think he’s happy knowing that there’s nothing he can do to make you forgive him? He knows he made a mistake. People make mistakes. It’s unfortunate but it happens. I can guarantee you that 90% of the time, the people who made the mistakes would give anything to be able to take it back.
Yknow I never blog these kinds of quotes and lovey dovey shit as I have my own awesome relationship to deal with, and not focus on the whole world’s relationships but may I just say SO many girls need to read the above paragraph. I have seen so many fucking girls who constantly use the lines in the photo after a boy hurts them. Like I saw this boyfriend apologise to his girlfriend on her wall last night and she could only say ”Too late” and many stupid girls who make indirect posts like that. You selfish brats, how could you not think about how shit they might feel already? You’re only making it worse. And honestly, it’s the girls that are more likely to fuck things up by doing that, not just the guy because he hurt his girlfriend once. But it’s just so horrible how girls can be so closed minded and act as if they’re perfect and they can’t have these kind of things said to them? Why because they’re a girl? Um NO.
Wednesday Jul 7 @ 03:59amwith girls that take their boyfriends for granted. like there are so many amazing boys who just have these girlfriends who are so clingy, jealous and overprotective. like there are so many girls who are single and would kill to be with great boyfriends let alone have one. and i don’t know what these boys are doing with the pathetic girls. okay so your boyfriend didn’t answer your call or didn’t reply to a text once. get over it. okay so your boyfriend wanted to hang out with his mates for one weekend, get over it. okay so your boyfriend commented on a girl’s status. get over it. some girls just need to get a grip and get over it. and same goes for guy’s too. just ugh i see it all over tumblr and facebook just people ranting for nothing. i don’t get it. really i don’t.
people take relationships so seriously at this age. i’m like what, 16. the majority i see of people (boys AND girls) complaining are like 14-19. we’re young. we’re supposed to just laugh shit off, not take stuff seriously. boyfriends and girlfriend come and go. you should be acting like teenagers, not married couples. there is an age and time to take everything so seriously, let alone be jealous and fuck shit up like that.
just take a chill pill & go with the flo. smoke some weed, just chill out.
okay coolbeans.
Day 7: What you want in a relationship
• Friendship.
• Love.
• Commitment.
• Cuddles.
• Honesty.
• Trust.
• Faithfulness.
• Happiness.
• Openness.
• Affection.
• Respect.
• Sexual attraction.
